How to survive freshers’ week
Gearing up for freshers' week? Here's everything you need to know to make it through in one piece, from making friends to nailing fancy dress...
From working out how many Jägerbombs you can get on a shoestring budget, to the challenge of learning how to use a washing machine, freshers' week is the start of a steep learning curve.
You're probably riddled with equal doses of excitement and trepidation about starting university, and we're here to tell you that the best and only tactic to ensure it goes smoothly is to come prepared.
We've compiled a list of the obstacles we faced, plus all the very best freshers' week tips. It's the ultimate guide to coming out the other end unscathed!
Essential freshers' week tips
These are the best freshers' week tips:
How much does freshers' week cost?
Working out a weekly budget for the year is a top-notch idea (we even have a handy guide to help you set it up). But we all know that'll go out the window in the chaos of freshers' week.
And that's before you consider that it could take a while for your Maintenance Loan money to come through. It's definitely a good idea to save some cash in advance, so you can afford to spend a few quid in freshers' week.
We'd say that a freshers' pass or wristband is probably worth buying if you plan on going to a few events. This is usually much cheaper than paying for entry to everything individually. Keep some money aside for this and any other one-off costs which may come up.
You won't want to miss out on anything because you blew all your cash on the first day, so plan ahead!
Don't try to reinvent yourself at university
You may have always dreamed of becoming a rapper or a health and fitness guru. But it's best to hold off on the impersonations for now.
Likewise, telling stories about your life back home is a great way to break the ice and make new friends. But try to stick to what's actually true, or it'll come back to bite you.
It's never a good idea to try to reinvent yourself. People will see straight through it and you'll feel much more comfortable if you aren't trying to be someone you're not.
How to deal with being shy at university
Even if you normally wouldn't make the first move to introduce yourself, you'll regret it if you hold back. Remember: you've all been thrown into the same unfamiliar boat. Anyone worth being friends with won't judge you for putting yourself out there.
If you find it hard to make the first move, prop the door open while you're settling in to your room. This way, your new flatmates can pop their heads in and say hello.
Make an effort to remember people's names, and they'll be more likely to remember you too. Apparently the trick is to say their name out loud back to them and it'll stick in your memory!
Also, asking questions is a sure-fire winner. Not only will this mean the focus is off you, but the other person will love that you want to know more about them. This is the perfect start to a good friendship.
And if all else fails, we have loads more tips in our guide to making friends at university.
Do your university admin early in the week
Spending half your day queuing for things and doing paperwork isn't exactly the wild freshers' week you were hoping for. But getting this boring stuff done when you start uni will make you feel a million times more confident about what's ahead.
The queues are likely to be long, but rather than get wound up about the wait, use them as an opportunity to get to know people (practice asking those questions we talked about).
Remember to find out what documents you need in advance, like your acceptance letter, some photo ID and passport-sized pictures, for example. Then you won't have to come back and queue all over again.
Sign up for clubs and societies
Go to your uni's freshers' fair and shop around. Most have hundreds of clubs, so you're bound to find one that interests you. Whether it's basketball, pizza or anything in between, there really is something for everyone!
Unless you're sure you'll stick with it, it's probably best to avoid signing up for clubs that ask for a registration fee. Don't pay to join the hockey club just as an incentive to get in shape – this rarely works.
Taking part in extracurricular activities is a great way to meet people outside your course and student accommodation. Plus the sports teams' nights out are always great fun.
Don't go to every freshers' event
There are so many freshers events that it can be a total headache (and wallet-ache) deciding which ones to go to.
It's easy to get FOMO when ducking out on the odd one or two. But don't panic – the earth will keep turning. And when it comes to surviving freshers' week, you'll stand a much better chance if you're not entirely burnt out.
The reality is that nights in are the best way to get to know your flatmates. Homemade cocktail nights are a lot better for chatting than smiling awkwardly over loud music and expensive drinks.
You'll also enjoy your nights out more if you're not suffering from yesterday's hangover – so don't overdo it.
Come armed with a deck of cards and a bottle opener (drinking games are part of the experience, but don't worry if you don't fancy them!). And stock up on sweets and tea bags. Sharing treats will help you meet new people and make a great first impression.Have a listen to our special freshers' week podcast for more tips on how to survive.
Always use your student discount
It's amazing how much better things taste when they're discounted – or even free! Now's the time to start getting into the habit of whipping out your student card at every opportunity.
Prepare for freshers' fancy dress events
We'll be straight with you. Whether you're partial to this sort of thing or not, freshers' week almost always involves some kind of fancy dress event.
Dressing up is a good icebreaker for people who don't know each other. And it also helps you separate fellow freshers from poor unsuspecting members of the public who've been caught up in the nonsense.
There's no need to spend a fortune on costumes though. Our list of cheap fancy dress ideas are all comfortably within a student budget! The difficult thing is that often a theme is announced closer to the event, so it can be tricky to know what to pack.
Learn to deal with homesickness at university
Leaving home can be more of a shock than you first expect. But, as much as you might want to spend an hour moaning to your folks on the phone, try to refrain. It will only worry them and give you a bad case of the puffy eye.
You may actually find it easier NOT to talk too much to people from home at first. This lets you concentrate on building a nice situation for yourself in your uni town.
Change is always going to be tough, but remember: everyone's in the same boat. If you're really struggling, we have a whole list of tips to help you overcome homesickness.Take plenty of vitamin C to avoid the infamous freshers' flu and make it easier to get out and about. Then at least you won't be forced to hide under the covers.
Don't get too drunk
We've arguably saved the most important freshers' week tip until last here. Getting so drunk that you end up being sick all over yourself will haunt you, so please don't overdo it. And always watch your drink so you know what's in it, and to keep as safe as possible.
Also, be careful about establishing romantic interests early on. Give yourself a chance to get to know people first, and them you, before you move on to any of that stuff. Oh, and try to avoid getting involved with your flatmates at all costs!
Finally, remember that freshers' week isn't your average week at uni, no matter what people might tell you. You're likely to feel a bit broken and poor afterwards, but you'll get back on track, we promise.
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