12 most annoying housemate habits
We've all got our own pet peeve, and our latest accommodation survey has uncovered the most common housemate gripes.
Most of us end up sharing a house or flat with other people at some point in our lives, whether you're at university or a young professional. You may live with your best friends or people you don't know, but inevitably your co-habitants will sometimes rub you up the wrong way.
It can be difficult to let them know how you feel – especially if you want to avoid tension in the house. And even if you do tell them, sometimes they just won't listen!
So, without further ado, let's have a gander at the most common things that get people's knickers in a twist.
Most annoying things housemates do
According to our National Student Accommodation Survey, these are the most common annoying housemate habits:
- Leaving dirty dishes out (55%)
- Not helping with the cleaning (47%)
- Being excessively loud (39%)
- Leaving lights and other appliances on (34%)
- Leaving food to rot (32%)
- Not removing hair from the plugholes (22%)
- Stealing food (18%)
- Not changing the toilet roll (18%)
- Leaving windows open (16%)
- Leaving the toilet seat up (15%)
- Moving a partner in (14%)
- Taking long showers (11%).
There is one overwhelming conclusion from these stats: anything unsanitary is an absolute sure-fire way to anger your flatmates. And, while we all enjoy the first taste of freedom after living under our parents' roofs for the first 18 years of our lives, it turns out that some of their house rules were actually pretty sensible.
Leaving dirty dishes out and allowing food to rot, as 55% and 32% of students respectively report their housemates to do, is almost an open invitation to bacteria – not to mention incredibly frustrating if you're trying to find room in the fridge, or space to work on the kitchen counter.
But it's not just issues of hygiene that wind people up – evidently, anything that adds to the bills can boil the blood of housemates, too.
Leaving lights and electrical appliances on (34%), leaving windows open (16%) and taking long showers (11%) are all unnecessarily wasteful habits that drive up your energy bills and, in the case of leaving windows open, can undo all your best efforts to protect your house from burglars.
And, of course, there are some habits that, while not damaging to your health or bank balance, are downright annoying.
Almost half of those surveyed (47%) report that their housemates don't help with the cleaning, with 18% failing to change the toilet roll after finishing it. Both annoying behaviours, but nothing when compared to the unforgivable sin of leaving hair in the plughole – a toe-curling habit that, sadly, 22% of students say they have to deal with.
How to deal with bad housemates
We're never ones to highlight problems without offering some advice too. Shared living presents lots of issues, but the solution is rarely a blazing row, nor is it to quietly simmer away in your room letting your frustrations take a toll on your mental health.
Our guide to dealing with annoying housemates has tips for resolving disputes with all the most common difficult roomies, but there are some general tips which are worth bearing in mind, too.
First off, if you haven't already made the decision, it's worth considering whether or not living with your friends is the best plan.
Our guide goes into the pros and cons in more detail, but one of the main arguments against living with friends is that annoying housemate habits and the money issues that come with sharing a home can put a real strain on a friendship.
That's not to say you should live with people you hate instead, but maybe take a moment to think about what your friends are like, and what they may be like to live with, before signing that tenancy agreement.
But what if you're already living with people who are grating on you? Well, as is often the case in life, honesty is the best policy – sit down with all of your housemates and have a discussion about how all of you would like your houseshare to work. This is best done when you move in, but if things are reaching a breaking point after that, it's definitely the most diplomatic approach to take.
Discuss things like heating (and other bills), cleaning and buying communal products, and make a fair plan which means no one person is putting in any more work or money than another to keep the house running smoothly. Oh, and avoid the passive-aggressive post-its – they never go down well.
No matter how bad things get, chances are your home won't be anywhere near as bad as the student house from hell.